You've dutifully set apart fifteen minutes to read to your three-year-old daughter: you've found a great book, gathered her onto your lap all ready to begin . . . only to have her squiggle away and start pulling out toys to play with. You know, because toys are fun.
There you sit with your picture book poised, and wonder whether to demand she listen to the book like you demand she partake of vegetables, grains, and other healthy stuff.
Wondering how to make reading time successful? (And we define successful as fun for your toddler and for you.) You'll find great resources and ideas next.
Ready, Set, Go!
"By the time children are two years old they have the capacity to
learn 20 new words a day if they're exposed to
them."
Reading to toddlers is one of the best
ways to build a child's vocabulary. Teachers and researchers agree
that a child who is read to regularly will be far ahead in terms of
reading readiness and also exhibit better social
skills.
A first grade teacher who taught for
twenty years was asked, "What is the best way to prepare my child for
school?" without hesitation she answered, "Do these three things: 1.
Read, 2. Read, and 3. Read."
More Than One Way
We generally picture a child sitting on our lap or snuggled in close
when we read to them, but research has found that "background
reading," meaning reading books out loud to a child who's doing other
things, is also helpful in teaching story structure and vocabulary to
children.
One author put it this way: "Toddlers
learn important things while reading: some of them just learn them
standing up!"
It's also fine for a toddler to
play with a favorite toy while you read to her, which can increase her
ability to concentrate.
Doing what is fun for
you and your toddler is what's important: acting out the story, using
puppets, asking questions about what you just read. It's not about
getting through the book, it's about the attitude surrounding reading.
Just before bed,
right after lunch,
or
every day at 10:00 a.m. .
.
A scheduled reading time will help your child
understand reading is special and important.
Monroe County Public Library List
http://www.monroe.lib.in.us/childrens/booklists/children_booklists.htmlMonroe County Public Library in Indiana has great booklists for kids, grouped in all sorts of helpful categories (like: Picture This!, Babies, Mysteries, etc.)
Beehive Awards
Children's Literature Association of Utah publishes lists of winning books, nominated by the children of Utah. Past and current lists available here.
Children's Literature Association of Utah
http://www.clau.org/brochures-bookmarks--lists.htmlThis is a rich list of other links to children's literature, including things like Children's Literature Web, The Reading Corner, BookSpot, and more.
Association for Library Service to Children
http://www.ala.org/awardsgrants/notable-childrens-booksThe American Library Association hosts the Association for Library Service to Children. This link will take you to the current annotated booklist for younger readers (and older ones). The following links and descriptions are taken from the ALA website:
Reader Recommendations
The Caldecott Medal Home Page
http://www.ala.org/alsc/awardsgrants/bookmedia/caldecottmedal/caldecottmedalRead about the award books and their illustrators in the Official site. This medal is awarded annually by the Association for Library Service to Children, a division of the American Library Association, to the artist of the most distinguished American picture book for children.
Have a Favorite?
Have excellent book recommendations? E-mail us with the title, author's name, publisher, and quick description of what makes this book a favorite, and we'll share it here.
Database of Award-Winning Children's Literature
http://www.dawcl.com/Search by children's book author or illustrator to see awards won or search for award-winning books (and runners-up) by the names of more than forty international (American, British, Australian, New Zealand) children's book awards limited by setting, ethnicity, publication year, age of reader, keyword, or other qualifiers in this database of almost 5,000 titles.
Reading time can be some of the most pleasant time you spend with your toddler. Really, it can! The benefits of reading together are clear: reading readiness increases, social skills improve, your child will develop a larger vocabulary (wait until your child asks for a dress "with a bustle"), and your child will develop a love for reading.
Remember President Monson's oft-quoted poem by Gillilan Strickland:
"You may have tangible wealth untold;
Caskets
of jewels and coffers of gold.
Richer than I
you can never be.”
I had a Mother who read to
me."
Best of all? Reading together gives us a reason to be close and share a fun moment every day with our toddler.
Sources
Strickland Gillilan, "The Reading Mother," in The Best Loved Poems of
the American People, sel. Hazel Felleman (1936),
376.
http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/growth/learning/reading_toddler.html
http://www.helium.com/tm/20463/bottom-reading-toddlers-challenge